Welcome, reader, to the Kanak Annual Family Update!
As with any family with involved kids, it's been busy, but we feel lucky to have such amazing children. And starting with the youngest...Geno
As many of you already know, Geno received a full-ride scholarship to attend the Chicago Academy For the Arts. We were not looking for this opportunity as we are very happy with the Herscher School District and have profoundly supported them since our kids were in kindergarten. We would have been proud for Geno to be a Tiger; however, when opportunity knocks, I think we owe it an answer.
It went down like this:
This past summer, on a recommendation from a friend, I signed Geno up for a dance camp at the Academy. After Day 3 of a nine-day camp, the dance instructor came up to me and asked if Geno would be interested in attending the Academy. We were flattered, but the price tag and the distance made it far from a possibility. The dance instructor simply asked, "If it were affordable, could you get him here every day?" I expressed all types of concerns such as all the application deadlines we missed, the entrance exams he hadn't taken, and the rigorous audition process that occurred months prior. He smiled and said, "Let me make a few phone calls."
Little did we know that those phone calls changed Geno's life. Generous donors from an endowment called The Young Men's Dance Initiative offered to pay his full tuition. The school accepted his work at the camp as his audition, and the very kind Academy staff walked me through the remaining paperwork.
Geno has had to grow up a lot taking on this new adventure. He has had to learn the Metra system and manage his own time under a block schedule. Luckily, our good friend, Deena Cassady, drops him off at the Flossmoor station everyday on her way to work, saving us tons of driving. We can't thank her enough!
As you might expect, this was a bittersweet decision. Geno misses his Herscher friends, and he was disappointed about not attending school with Mary--their one and only year they would be in the same school. They were looking forward to being on scholastic bowl together and seeing each other in the halls. He was also bummed about not being able to participate in high school baseball, as the academy doesn't have sports. In addition, he misses his friend and teachers at the Paula Aubry Dance Studio. Right now, we are taking it one day at a time, and I told Geno that Herscher will be there in the event he wants a more traditional high school experience, but as of right now, he seems really happy with his choice.
Luckily, we were able to find a travel baseball league, so he can scratch that itch. He's also been able to carve out time for his girlfriend, Cassie, who happens to be one of the sweetest young ladies you could ever meet.
Though Geno has my face, his sense of humor is totally 100% Kanak, and I find myself picturing what Gene must have been like at that age. He does amazing impressions (including several family members), and knows exactly when to drop in a funny movie line to lighten a mood. He loves music, and of course, this kid dances everywhere he goes. From the kitchen to the basement, taking out the garbage, you name it, he can dance it.
I know a lot of parents say this about their kids, but Geno is just a really nice kid. Though he admits he needs to be more patient at times, generally speaking, Geno has a sense of justice about the world that guides his moral compass, and he's not afraid to say controversial things if it means sticking up for a "little guy."
I have often said that it must be hard being Mary's little brother. As you will soon read, Mary excels in many things; she has cast a large shadow, which could intimidate most. However, Geno is not one to hide in the dark, and despite every obstacle, he's creating his own spotlight.
Mary
What's NOT going on with Mary? She's busy applying to colleges and scholarships all while taking a rigorous course schedule and participating in a variety of extra curriculars. As a bowler, Mary rolled the first 300 game in Herscher High School program history and advanced to IHSA Sectionals for the second year in a row in 2023, and on the softball field, she enjoyed two more excellent seasons, one for the regional champion Herscher Tigers and the other for Tinley Park Rockers 18U.
She has had college coaches express interest in her talents in both sports; however, Mary is holding off on any decisions regarding intercollegiate athletics until she knows where she'll be studying. She is eyeing some of the most elite institutions and programs in the world, but she has the credentials, so why not? It remains to be seen where she'll attend classes next fall, but one thing that's certain is that any institution that gets to count Mary as a member of its student body will be damn lucky to have her!
Mary took on a huge leadership role with her school's homecoming this year, taking center stage at assemblies and daily announcements. Many people mistake Mary for being shy; however, she can step up and do what is needed to get a job done.
In fact, she was recently commended at her job at White Castle in Bourbonnais for her excellent customer service skills.
On a side note, I just have to tell you all how impressed I continue to be with Mary. She has earned all 5s on her AP exams, took summer classes so she fit Calculus into her school schedule, and loves to speak Spanish. While I know she is impressive in many ways, she's also funny, kind, and one of the most dedicated and complicated humans I know. Thinking of her going away to college this fall is incomprehensible to me. She is such an integral part of my very existence that I don't know how my heart is going to handle this change.
Mary has managed to keep a close circle of friends since grade school, many of whom are pictured below, along with a picture from prom with her boyfriend Johnathan--a delightful, smart young man. Also, pictured is her BFF, Rae, who has been a fixture in our lives since their first day of kindergarten--their friendship is rare, genuine, and inspiring.
I just can't get over how lucky I am to know Mary. If you know her, you understand..."There's just something about Mary."
I am currently in the midst of Year 2 as a communications manager for the United States Bowling Congress. During my tenure, I've traveled to exotic locations like Queensland, Australia, and Santiago, Chile, to cover Team USA bowlers and their quest for gold medals. I was also fortunate enough to be up close and personal as young men and women captured collegiate national titles and bowlers on the PBA and PWBA Tours won titles and captured their first majors. It's VERY difficult being on the road and away from my family - during one stretch this summer, I was gone 58 days out of 71 - but I'm genuinely proud to have the opportunity to do what I do, which is to tell the stories of amazing bowlers, young and old, from all over the world. The only thing that could top this would be if I were good enough to be a world-class bowler myself. Sadly, at age 44 and on the eve of undergoing shoulder reconstruction No. 2, that seems unlikely. As such, I'll have to be content watching and writing about the achievements of others. However, nothing beats the joy and pride I get from watching the achievements of my incredible wife and my two amazing children. They all astound me on a daily basis, and I wake up each day anxious to see what they'll do next. Rest assured, whatever it is, you can count on reading about it in next year's blog...if not sooner. Until then, love and best wishes to all!
Angie
After 20 years of teaching, I decided to leave the education field. I am currently working for the Administrative Office of Illinois Courts in the Record Keeping and Technology Unit as a training specialist. It has been a major adjustment, but I am learning a ton, and I don't miss the stress of the classroom. I feel more relaxed and have a ton more energy, so it looks like it was a good switch for me, for now. I am still operating my photography business, which keeps me pretty busy. Just recently, one of my photos was published in a magazine, an exciting achievement for me.
Well, that's it for 2023. We hope you and yours are well.